The “aboutness” is important right now. What is your experience about? What is your research about? What about you is unique, similiar or contrary? What are you about?
I’m currently about discovery. It’s difficult to look at yourself. Display yourself. Find yourself the article of your attention, but that is what they are asking us to do right now. What do you want. What is your want most about. What is the aboutness of your wants. Don’t commit to things you should do. Only do your wants. You be you. I like to proscribe to this but you do sometimes have to do things you don’t want to do.
Update: Aboutness is defined in the Oxford Living Dictionary as “The quality or fact of relating to or being about something.” I thought it was a made up word. I was convinced that if you just add “ness” to the end of word, it meant you were in grad school.